Photo Credit: www.ladiestreat.com[/caption]This post isn't about where your date will be or your vision. The question, "How do you see your date?" refers to your perception of your date. Are you seeing your date through your positive frames of perception or your negative ones?
For instance, when you first meet your date, do you immediately think, "Ugh, I hate that outfit?" If that's your first thought before speaking to them, you've got on your negative frames of perception. Pop out those negative frames and pop in the positive frames. Now, you should see them and think,"Different choice of outfit, but I can't wait to get to know them!"
See the difference?
If your date says something off the wall or has completely different interests from you, don't be instantly negative about it. It will ruin your experience and it's guaranteed that if you make it a habit to leave those negative frames of perception over your eyes, you'll hate every date you have. You'll find something wrong with their hair, their body, their outfit, their car, their meal choice, their taste in movies, their taste in music...you'll find any and every reason not to like them.
That is one surefire way to remain single. Nobody is perfect and you can't see the positive without putting on your positive frames of perception. Remember, it's also important to look at yourself positively. If you struggle with that, check out our post about being the best you.
Until next time,
One on One and Eight at Eight
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