Friday, May 24, 2013

"Get Your Sexy On" Happy Hour and Style Event Recap

First, we would like to thank everyone, members and non-members, who attended our fabulous "Get Your Sexy On" style coaching event! We had so much fun and learned so much about date appropriate attire. The most simple changes can make the sexiest difference in an outfit. Who knew? Image consultants, Carmen Westbrook and Victor Rogers, that's who!

[caption id="attachment_2703" align="aligncenter" width="300"]Style Coaches Image consultants Victor Rogers and Carmen Westbrook[/caption]

The following are a few tips that stuck out the most:

  • Fit, fit, fit!- Men, a shirt that fits is not too tight, it just fits. You're used to the extra room because you've been wearing shirts that are two sizes too big. Big shirts may be comfortable, but they are also sloppy. The same applies to pants. Women, showing a little skin and wearing clothes that actually show your shape won't make you a "hoochie mama."  Wearing clothes that are too big for you will make you look frumpy dumpy.

  • Women, repeat after me,"I will wear a DRESS to my date."- Men across the room agreed a dress was their preferred piece of clothing for a date. Get off of your high horse for a moment. Sure you're a powerful business leader, you also want a powerful man. Play the feminine role and let him play the masculine role on your date. No one at the office has to know!

  • If your wallet is a mess, she may think you are too.- Women like when men know how to accessorize in a masculine way. The wallet is the most common male accessory , but sometimes even a nice wallet can give women the wrong idea. A nice wallet  bursting with junk implies you're a mess according to Director of Matchmaking, Jennifer, and several women who were in the audience. All women were able to agree, even if you aren't assumed to be a mess due to your wallet, a big fat wallet full of receipts (not money) isn't attractive.

  • Don't be afraid of trying too hard- Your date wants to feel like you cared about coming to see them. Don't come to a date looking like you're just stopping by to chat with a friend. In the words of the image consultants, "The goal is to get to naked right?" Spark some interest. Show you have something nice going on under those clothes. Remember, fit, fit, fit!


[caption id="attachment_2699" align="alignnone" width="300"]Casual date outfit Coffee date look. Yes, it's possible to be casual and still look like you care![/caption]

There were several models to help the audience get a better understanding of what their outfits should look like. Special thanks to Kurt, Carolina, Chris and Jennifer for strutting their stuff!

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At the end of the presentation, the audience had a fun Q&A session with the style coaches. A variety of topics were covered including favorite date outfits of men and women, custom clothing, bad accessories and good accessories, and how to compliment a woman.

[caption id="attachment_2693" align="alignnone" width="300"]Q&A Asking why more men don't get manicures. Good question![/caption]

Of course, we let our singles mingle together, before and after the presentation.

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About Carmen Westbrook:

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Carmen Westbrook[/caption]

“What I like about fashion has nothing to do with the superficial aspect of it - the “it” bag of the season, possessing everything that is hot, new, or purely high end designer. It’s about how the perfect outfit can transform the way you feel. It’s about creating a wardrobe that’s a true reflection of your unique personality and style.”

That simple fashion philosophy, and a real desire to do something meaningful, is what led Carmen Westbrook to create Naked. She’s truly passionate about fashion and making people feel comfy in their own skin (with some clothes on, of course). Click here to learn more about Carmen's Naked Fashion Help.

About Victor Rogers:

[caption id="attachment_2705" align="alignnone" width="176"]Victor Rogers style coach Image Consultant Victor Rogers[/caption]

Victor has an incredible eye for detail and a gift for encouraging people to look and feel their absolute best. He created Victorious Inc. as a way to combine his talents, interests and favorite activities, while helping people improve their image through smart wardrobe choices. He especially enjoys helping clients navigate major transitions such as career change, significant weight loss or gain, or 'suddenly single' and dating again. No matter where they are, Victor knows that by putting their best foot forward (in the right shoe, of course!) , they will look and feel better along their journey.

Born in L.A. (Lower Alabama), Victor studied psychology and English literature and earned a degree in broadcast news and public affairs. He has worked in public relations and communications for more than 15 years, writing, consulting, and preparing individuals and groups for media interviews by giving tips on what to say and what to wear (or what not to wear) during that crucial moment. To learn more about Victor's Victorious Inc. click here.

Hope you took notes!

Until next time,

One on One and Eight at Eight

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