Photo Credit: www.personalitytutor.com[/caption]Being the best you is important to your dating life for many reasons. The most obvious reason is you wouldn't want to date someone who wasn't at their best, unless you're into fixer-uppers. This sentiment is shared amongst other daters as well.
Being the best you is all about being at a place in life where you actually like yourself. I'm not talking about your accomplishments, your figure or your style. I'm talking about you. Your goal should be to like, no, love you! Love all of your imperfections and quirks. So you say weird things sometimes, think of yourself as delightfully quirky. You may need to lose a few pounds, in your mind say, " I'm more to love." You may be dating a little older. Tell yourself, "I've got the most experience in all things fun and I know the city better than anyone."
It's all about perspective. Now, this doesn't mean you should have unrealistic beliefs nor does it mean give up on your goal to lose 10 pounds. It just means you should love yourself for the current you. Accept that life is a journey and you will change along the way. Embrace those changes, learn from those changes and use them to mold yourself in to someone amazing.
No one is going to want someone who dislikes themselves, especially if you're obvious about it. Don't complain about your hair or your weight all the time. Just improve it. Get a new haircut start exercising or find some delicious, healthy recipes so you're not on a miserable diet.
Like yourself and it will make you more positive and happy. It will shine from the inside out and that shine is what will attract the partner you seek.
For more tips on being the best you visit: http://www.yourtango.com/experts/inez-bracy/3-ways-love-yourself-attract-your-mate-expert
Until next time,
Eight at Eight and One on One
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