In today's world, it can be really easy to get bogged down with work meetings, family appointments, working out, taking care of the dogs, your house, etc. How are you supposed to fit anything in? This can be some tough news for some of you guys, but you may just be too busy to date. One of our favorite clients here at 1 on 1 Matchmaking came in to talk to us today because he found a great girl! She's funny, intelligent, adventurous... all the things he's been looking for but there's a final deal breaker: she's just TOO BUSY! She can't schedule another date with him for more than two weeks. It doesn't make her any less great than she is.. it just means that she's too busy to invest in a relationship in her life. Our great bachelor is choosing to look ahead-- for someone else who has all those great things AND the ability to invest in someone romantically.
Schedules do change. Some months will be busier than others, and that's okay! If you find that you don't have the time right now, just make sure that you are proactive in finding time when your schedule calms down.
Just some things to consider:
Are you setting unrealistic expectations on yourself and your schedule to date?
If you were to be completely honest with yourself, do you actually have the time right now to
build a relationship?
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