In the dating world, everyone knows that some people “date out of their league.” And no, I am not talking about looks; I am talking about personality, interests and hobbies as well.
You want to attract a partner who loves to workout, hike and spend time at the beach? Get off your butt and go do those things! Don’t talk the talk if you can’t walk the walk.
So many times the characteristics and traits that people want in a partner are polar opposite of the way that they actually are themselves. Guys with no fashion sense want a trendy and fashionable girl. Girls who love to watch movies on the couch want a sporty, athletic guy. It doesn’t really work that way. A relationship with someone that you have nothing in common with will never work out.
Now, I am by no means saying that a couple has to have identical interests and hobbies, but there has to be some overlap. To have a successful relationship you have to share a few similar interests. Maybe you like to jog together, or maybe you both love to cook new things. Save the different interests for your time apart. Let him play golf, poker, and lift weights when he is with the guys and he will let you watch rom-coms, get your nails done, and gossip with the girls.
There is a perfect balance of time together and time with your friends that you should strive for. Once you find out what works for you and your relationship; it’s guaranteed to be a happy one.
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