Have you ever heard the phrase: "A happy girl is a pretty girl"? We think this rule applies to dating - and to both men and women! The happy people seem the most approachable, the most fun to be around, and bring the joy to the party of life. Increase your odds of scoring a date with the cutie across the room - or of having the hot girl walk over and hand you her number - by acting like, and actually BEING - the happiest person in the place!
I have observed 6 things that the happy people are doing differently than the "unhappy" set. Practice these habits, and soon being happy will truly be second nature to you!
1. Exercise. It is true that exercise increases endorphins, which then of course elevates your mood. People who exercise regularly also feel better about themselves both inside and out, so do your future love life a favor -- and hit the gym!
2. Have goals. People who have something to look forward to and to strive for tend to come across as more satisfied. Not to mention, it is definitely attractive to talk to someone who is ambitious!
3. Forgive people. Those who harbor resentment and anger over past hurts or wrong doings are only hurting themselves. Don't you think the person who hurt you has forgotten about it? Probably. So - so should you. Put a smile on your face and move on. Soon, that hurt will ACTUALLY BE a distant memory!
4. Be social! This keeps your perspectives fresh, and your energy level up. Don't be a couch potato; get out there, socialize, and meet new people!
5. Be thankful. Grateful people come across as the most satisfied - so always practice gratitude. Not to mention - who wants to date someone who is rude to the waiter, or snappy to the valet? Treat everyone graciously, and it will be noticed by the people around you.
6. Last but not least - Don't sweat the small stuff. This sounds cliche, but seriously. No one wants to be around the person who is ALWAYS stressing about SOMETHING that is actually insignificant to everyone around them. It is hard to enjoy the true joys of life when you are too consumed with the tiny ding on your bumper, or the fact that you gained 2 pounds. Move on, stop obsessing, and don't sweat it. People who go with the flow are much more attractive - be one of them!
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Until next time,
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