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"He's too nice" is such a frustrating sentence. What makes a man or anyone too nice? Is that even really possible?
The reason you're likely wrong about him?
You probably only date "bad boys" (not on purpose):
Most women have been guilty of dating bad boys at some point. A select few never learn how to stop being attracted to them. These men know how to attract women easily. They know what to say and when to say it. It's not easy to turn down their charming smiles and ability to keep you intrigued, while maintaining a bit of mystery. You have to learn how to look past the smile and hear what a man is really saying, not what you want to hear.
Nice guys are simply foreign to you. You have to get used to them, if you ever want to date someone who will treat you well. Think about what your idea of what a man is. If the man pursuing you encompasses all the traits you associate with what man is supposed to be, but he compliments you too much or he is always opening your door or offering to carry things, ask yourself "Why don't I deserve these things?"
That's right. Why don't you deserve someone who compliments you often? Why don't you deserve someone who wants to be a gentleman for you? If you come to the conclusion you deserve these things, let nice men date you and stop complaining about their acts of kindness.
If you feel there is something in your past that keeps you going back to the wrong types of men, consider date coaching to help you break this pattern.
Until next time, good luck!
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