Photo credit: www.biggerpockets.com[/caption]We will get to the ways you can let your money speak for itself in a moment.
First, you should know talking about money is NOT a turn on! Especially, if you're dating someone who has their own financial wealth.
Whether you're a man or a woman, when you run your mouth talking about how much money you have during your date, it is just not sexy. It makes you seem classless and arrogant. The only person who would enjoy listening to how much money you have is someone who wants you for your money. DUH! Instead you should let your money speak for itself.
*These examples can be used for both men and women, but men are the most common offenders in the crime of money boasting, so they are directed at men. Many of the men we are in contact with get negative feedback for boasting about their wealth too much.
1. Do dinner somewhere nice- If you're already at a five star restaurant and you order a three-course meal, I think she gets the point fellas. You don't have to talk about how much money you've got in the bank or how you dropped a million dollars on your new yacht, especially if you don't know her well. For all you know she could have more millions than you do. It's a new day and age. Women who have their own businesses can easily stand up against men, when it comes to income and there are many of them.
2. Make sure she sees your car- Don't talk about your awesome car. Offer to pick her up. When she sees you in your Lamborghini, she'll get it. You have money. Even if she gushes over your nice car, whatever kind of car you may have, don't indulge in sharing how much it cost, how much every single upgrade was, or how much you spent on having custom seats made. Now that you've shown her what you can afford, she will equate that with you having money.
3. Show it in your clothes and accessories-The way you dress can definitely make you appear more wealthy than you actually are. More and more men are becoming more fashionable, but chances are your lady is way ahead of you. She will recognize the custom suit you have on is expensive. If you go on a few casual dates and only wear the most expensive brands, she will recognize them for their notable features. You may not know much about fashion, if that's the case there are all kinds of resources to help you get your look together.
Try picking up a men's fashion magazine like GQ Magazine, getting a stylist, personal shopper, or Googling "men's fashion" to get ideas.
Those are your three tips on making your money speak. Really, you should not use your money as a crutch to get anyone to be more interested in you. In the long run, the person who comes in your life not knowing how much money you make will be the one who is the most genuine.
Until next time, good luck!
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