A Simple "Thank You"!

My job as a matchmaker is to set people up on good dates with people I think could be a long term possible match for them.

One of my biggest frustrations is people not taking responsibility for their actions and not putting forth effort to make the date enjoyable for both people.

What inspired me to write this posting was some feedback I received after a date last week:

“I like to pay for dinner because I’m a gentleman. I typically expect to pay, and will totally make a scene if someone tries to oust me from doing so. With that said, she expected me to pay and happily let me – which I had no qualms with at all. However SHE NEVER THANKED ME FOR DINNER! I don’t think she was unappreciative by any stretch, but a simple thank you to a stranger would be nice!!! That kinda rubbed me the wrong way!“

I mean... what the heck???  Who is this girl's mama???  I kind of want to call and fuss at her!  With actions like that, it seems too obvious that the girl wasn’t that into him either.  If you do not see yourself going on a second date with a man, why would you let him pay for your meal?  Please tell me you are not there for the free meal - that’s sad and pathetic, don’t you think?!  If you aren’t into the guy then you should offer to pay for your own dinner…  And of course, I can’t believe I have to say this, ALWAYS thank anyone that buys you anything!

Duh!

Broken Heart

Heart Break is a horrible lonely feeling and it seems the pain is endless.  The good news is that there is an END.  Here is an article that has the "stages" of getting over heartbreak. If you are going through heartbreak, see where you are in the stages of eventually being fully 100% completely over it! I know some of you are saying, yeah right, who ever really gets over heartbreak 100%...Well, Hang in there honey - Soon you will be SO OVER IT!

PS. this article is kinda funny too, Enjoy :)

An Oldie but a Goodie!

Ladies Ladies Ladies...why do we taunt ourselves over and over and over again!  Constantly analyzing everything a guy does or mostly does NOT do.

If a guy isn't going out of his way to be with you, then 99.9% of the time THEY ARE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!  I know the truth is a bitch hurts but instead of wasting your precious time (lets be real, we only have so many "good years") drop that guy like a bad habit and move on until you find a guy that worships the ground you walk on!  YOU DESERVE IT, and honestly it is his loss because you ROCK!

If you haven't read the book or seen the movie  "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" then check them out! The movie is great for a girls night!

Click Here for  the movie  trailer  and click Here for the Book.  ENJOY

It is Here!!!

CHEERS TO THE FREAKIN' WEEKEND!

Just wanted to wish everyone a fantastic weekend! I hope you all have a super hott date, fun plans with some friends, or just spend it relaxing away!

The Eight at Eight Team will be celebrating this weekend with an Awesome Bachelorette Party!  One of our own, Miss Jennifer Barnes, is getting married!!! So, this weekend Sarah Kathryn is throwing her a "Final Fling before the Bling".  With that said, Cheers to the Bride, Jennifer Barnes!

Oh and Cheers to you!...to making the weekend memorable!

Playing House?!

Are you and your partner “playing house”?  Most of us have done this, or will do this, in our lifetimes!

What is the harm?  I mean... it makes sense, right?  Most of the time it sort of just happens, or it seems more convenient… lower rent, unlimited time with your lovie, and, of course… "practicing" for that next step!

This article is pretty interesting.  It actually states that women tend to think living together is a step towards marriage, whereas men tend to view it as a test for the future of the relationship, or as a way to put off the actual commitment. OH, SNAP!

Read-up HERE!

Hott & Steamy!

I keep hearing A LOT of hype about this new HOTT & STEAMY book, "50 Shades of Gray"! The book has been known to make quite a few women blush and is being considered "mommy porn".  Just to clear that undermining "mommy porn" nickname...I have some girlfriends in their 20's that are aroused raving about  book!

I will be waiting for my copy to arrive in the mail but encourage all you ladies out there who are looking for something spicy, different, and new to read to order your copy now!

You can purchase a copy here!

What NOT to say!

Are you the person who is always in a relationship that ends....without really knowing why?  Well I came across this article of "RELATIONSHIP KILLERS" and thought many of us could use this tips.

Even those of us who are in a good/healthy relationship could use some tips on what NOT to say that could potentially hurt or kill the relationship.

My favorite tip of the article is the first one.  During an arguement NOT saying "Well then maybe we shouldn't be together".  Many of us have used this phrase to threaten show our partner how "serious" we are about the argument... 99.9% of the time we don't really think nor are we prepared for a break-up...but what if it back-fired and they agreed!?  BOOM - THEN WHAT?!!?

                 Check it out HERE!

Keeping the Love Alive!

We focus on setting us singles in the hopes of making a love connection...and we like LOVE what we do!  It is so fun and honestly quite rewarding...Does that make us selfish? Ha!   I came across another "dating" concept and thought I would share it with you.

These 2 guys originally started a singles dating site but decided that they wanted to "help" in a different way.  They created a site that helps create dates for married couples to Keep the Love Alive.  What a wonderful concept!

It is very rewarding to help two people make a love connection so I can imagine how much more rewarding it must be to keep that connection going!

Check it out:       http://www.howaboutwe.com/couples    

Dieting...Ewwww

Summer is coming up fast...which means the dreaded SwimSuit is beginning to creep into your mind!  Isn't it such a SAD SAD SAD day when you realize that you can no longer eat what you want  and for the rest of your life you will have to be miserable DIET!

We all have Yo-Yo'ed .  You know, get skinny fast (by being a hungry bitch) then back to doing what we want, only to put it all back on! UGHHHH, Hate it!

If you are OVER IT, like the rest of us, check out this Conscious Eating Workshop by Dr. Janet Page.  You might have heard of her, she wrote "Get Married this Year".  She wants to teach us how to make a LIFE CHANGE in our Diet thinking.  You can find more information about it HERE.

Dinner Date?

Having a date over for dinner?  What to cook? 

If you are trying to impress a date or just shake things up this can be quite the conundrum!

My answer: KABOBS.

They are healthy, delicious, Man-Tested- Easy and can be cooked on the grill or in the oven!  Also, this is something that would be fun for you and date to prepare together!

Get the recipe for Shrimp Kabobs Here...but you can really let your imagination run with different meats & vegetables.

(HINT: don't make your own marinade, cheat buy the pre-made marinades.  Don't be ashamed...They are delicious, big array of flavors, will save you time, and  $Moo-lah$!)

ENJOY

Are you dating a Jerk?

I came across this blog post and really wanted to share it.  I think it is fabulous advice along with being quite funny!

http://gaynoralder.com/2012/04/04/signs-youre-dating-a-narcisstic-asshole/

Ladies, It is worth reading!  Enjoy!

Our New Director of Events - Alicia

Name: Alicia Faye Wallace

Age: 27

Hometown: Baton Rouge, Louisiana

Currently Resides: Midtown, Atlanta

Education: Bachelor of Business Administration from Southeastern Louisiana University

Hobbies & Interest: Traveling, cooking, listening to any live music, discovering new music, food & wine festivals, jogging thru the city, hanging out with family & friends

Pets: a 4 yr. old Sassy cat named Chloe

Favorite Sports Teams: LSU & New Orleans Saints ( I heart football)

Favorite Vacation Spots: Rome-Italy, Playa Del Carmen-Mexico, Breckenridge-Colorado, and anywhere I have never been...I love experiencing a new culture/area

What are you listening to:  Florence and the Machines, Kimbra, Gotan Project, K'naan...I really LOVE all genres of music

Favorite Movie: Pretty Woman, Romeo & Juliet (Leonardo & Claire Danes version), and Just Married

Flirting with your eyes

EYE CONTACT



Don't be afraid to "get caught" looking at someone you are interested in.  Eye contact is the most powerful tool  to use if you are trying to lure someone from across the room.

Flirting with your eyes:  Look at them, wait for them to notice, then shyly look away.  Look at them again, get caught for the 2nd time and smile.  If they smile back or start walking over then you scored.

Eye Contact is super important while  conversating as well.  If you are into the conversation then be sure to show it by keeping your focus on them.  If they are a creep-o then look away at others, or up at the ceiling.  Hopefully they will get the hint and get lost.