When “What’s Your Number?” came out in theaters last Friday, it had us thinking about dating taboos. Good Idea: Taking your date to this movie. Bad Idea: Using this opportunity to ask him/her “So, what’s your number?” No matter how comfortable you feel on a date, there are some topics you should probably avoid.
Don’t let curiosity kill your chance for a potentially great relationship:
When dating someone new, it is best to keep the conversation light and upbeat. We recommend that you stay away from conversations about past relationships-this includes discussing relationship expectations, like your constant need for public displays of affection. (i.e. “I need some who…”) It’s important to keep the past in the past, especially when it does not pertain to the current situation. Avoid these topics, and you’ll avoid comparisons and insecurities about measuring up to past partners.
The same goes for dating horror stories. Dating can be hilarious, but when you focus on past dates you’re taking time and attention away from what is happening between the two of you. You never know what could make your new partner jealous or insecure.
Please, do yourself a favor: don’t question the state of the relationship too early on. Ladies-men would rather have relationships than talk about them. Asking where the relationship is headed can make you appear desperate. If often ruins the hunt of the chase.
Do we even have to mention religion and politics? Didn’t think so. These conversations can be provoking but run the risk of offending your date.
Here’s a tip from the experts: There’s nothing wrong with planning out your conversations-as long as they are genuine. Think of questions you might ask your date or short, humorous stories you could share. A list of safe topics you might consider: travel, food/drink, friends, weekend plans, career goals, and hobbies.
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