The Case for Good Profile Photos

Q: Why do you talk so much about appearance? I don't want to meet shallow people and anyone who can't see past a hair out of place doesn't need to be in my life in the first place. - Anonymous, 44

 

A: Excellent point. Here's the deal with photos and your appearance in regards to dating sites and matchmaking services: yours should say, "Ask me out on a date!" Make finding love worth every bit of effort you put into it. It's not about letting people judge you on your appearance on these dating sites- it's about reflecting your best qualities and not letting the surface level kinks get between you and your next great love!

 

Let me tell you a story about the first engagement at One on One Matchmaking, between a hot, young company VP and a sweet, down-to-earth Southern girl. We knew instantly that they were meant to be. However, as a brilliant businessman and a natural skeptic, we knew he may need one extra push before really falling for her. This smart Bachelorette had professional photos taken, and sent us photos of her at her very best. She was adorable in person, but her professional photos were stunning (we're talking celebrity-grade)! The Bachelor was smitten! He knew that she was college-educated, active in the community, and a perfect 10 on the inside, but now he knew she was equally beautiful on the outside too!

 

I like to remind Bachelors and Bachelorettes to allow themselves to be an all-round beautiful being. Don't let the small things - like appearance - rule you out of a great relationship with someone who appreciates EVERYTHING about you!