Photo Credit: http://keepcalmstudio.com[/caption]Approaching an attractive stranger can be nerve-wracking no matter how much confidence you have. Knowing what cues to take can make approaching someone a little easier. Traditionally, women do not approach men, but times are changing! The tips we are going to share today can help both men and women.
The easiest way to approach someone is to get them to notice you first. Abruptly approaching someone may work for some people, but it is easier to gauge interest, if you have already been noticed.
For example, if you are grocery shopping say, "Excuse me" and reach in front of the person you want to approach. Give a little smile and look at some other items to give them time to react. If you catch them glancing at you (especially with a smile), you have got them where you want them! Make your move and strike up a conversation. Do not forget to make some light-hearted jokes and seal the deal by getting their number.
Another stress-free way to to make your move is by asking for help. This could be applied to most scenarios. For example, go to a new park and ask for help finding the walking or running trail. Most people are friendly about helping others find things, so this makes for a relaxed way to ease into a conversation. Make your move and ask if the person you are interested in would like to go on the trail with you some time.
Making your move does not have to be scary. Always keep in mind that dating is a numbers game. The fear of rejection will hinder your success. The more moves you make the more dates you will land and the more dates you land the more likely you are to find love.
Until next time, good luck!
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