The Good Ole Dating Game

It's been in the back of our minds for centuries and has yet to disappear. The infamous dating game. My question is why do people continue to participate in these so called games? Its exhausting, confusing, and can be slightly depressing if the game doesn't go your way. Woman are so obsessed with them. A new relationship is supposed to be fun and exciting, not full of obsession and insecurities. So this brings me to the most frustrating question of all...



Why, as women, are we frowned upon if we decide to skip the games all together and actually act how we feel towards a guy? The words psycho, desperate, and crazy are three words that are thrown around way to casually all over the dating world. If the girl texts or calls first, she's considered obsessive. If she suggests they hangout, regardless of what you suggest you do together, she is all of a sudden to available. If we like someone, why is it so HORRIBLE to initiate the first move, game free.

Can we just sit and think of how ridiculous this concept is for a second. If you act uninterested when you really are interested, the only sort of games you are playing are with yourself! I know from personal experience that games can be fun in the beginning. However, if you let your insecurities take over and continue the games long enough, it won't end well. Games are for the chase.. once he's already got you and wants you the games will confuse him and will slowly drive him away, trust me! These aren't even games! What we are really doing is manipulating the other person. Regardless of what people think, if you like a person and want your relationship to work, skip the manipulation all together. Keep it simple, it will work out and if it doesn't it's not meant to be.

On to the next one ladies!