Stop setting your standards on looks only!!!

Do you find yourself asking, where are all the good guys? They are there right in front of you just like they've always been. You just can't see them, because your too busy focusing on "looks" as your first standard.

I've heard all the typical stories and maybe it's happened to you. So many times family/friends want to set you up with someone on a blind date. The next thing you know, you're on the date eagerly glancing up at them walking through the door. Now you're thinking "OH NO'' he's not my "type" and thinking of every excuse to bolt. Dread creeps over you like an ugly rash. You even contemplate escaping through the bathroom window until you come to your senses. Now now, not so fast, you should take a deep breath, stay clam and just enjoy the evening for your own sake.  Also, believe it or not this person might be the ONE!

What? You say.  Don't get me wrong. I do believe in the attraction, but that's not what you should look at first. Give that person a chance, maybe the first date you didn't get those wonderful butterflies. But if, you could just potentially like at least one thing in that person and maybe give a second date a try, a pleasant surprise could be around the corner. Another quality you like about them will appear and next thing you know, you are falling in love with this amazing person that you have taken the time to get to know.

You may not believe it but one of the best ways to find a compatible partner is through your family and friends. You see, your family and friends know you sometimes better than you think they do. They are looking for certain traits and characteristics in that person who would be perfect for you based on knowing you and your life style.  "Looks" may not be a high critera. They believe that the person they set you up with will possibly be the missing link to your well being and happiness.

Not all men have movie star looks. But, they are sexy in their own right. These guys happen to be the some of the sweetest, smartest,  most successful men around. They make the best husbands and fathers. They  simply want to love you, spoil you and take care of you. What more can a girl ask for?

Next time you get set up on a blind date be open minded, Do yourself a favor and give it a decent whirl. And remember ladies, sometimes that frog might just turn out to be your Prince after all .......