
Any dog-owner knows the wonderful feeling of coming home to a devoted pet; you’re instantly greeted with worshipful affection. This type of infatuation is often called “puppy love,” resembling the adoration of an excited puppy. If you’re not a teenager anymore, then maybe it’s time to distinguish love from infatuation.
When evaluating your emotional response to a potential mate, focus your attention on how that person makes you feel about yourself. A companion may look perfect on paper or your arm, but his or her flawless image will fade as you become more intimate. Seek out a partner who will push your sense of self in a positive direction. Does this person enhance and encourage your positive traits? Does his or her attraction help you feel more attractive? Do you feel like a better version of yourself because of your connection? Instead of focusing on being his or her number one fan, pay attention to how you feel about yourself in the context of your new relationship.
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