There's nothing like a new love interest in your life to have you floating on cloud nine. It's the best secret you've ever had – until you can't help but work it into every conversation that you’re dating someone fantastic. During this time the trees are greener, food tastes better, and you want everyone to know how happy you are with Mr. or Ms. Hottie Biscotti. You feel like your urgent prayers have finally been answered by Cupid, and above all, you are relieved that you can finally deactivate that darned online profile. LOVE CONQUERS ALL!You’re at the peak of your honeymoon phase, and then…the plateau.
We all know that hormones calm down and the chemicals in your brain eventually stabilize. Third-generation matchmaker and star of “Millionaire Matchmaker” offers her keen insights on how to keep things fresh throughout the relationship. Monogamous doesn’t have to mean monotonous! Patti, take it away!
“Be intimate often. Lack of sex is the biggest problem in couples' lives, she says. Find simple ways to promote intimacy: Take a bubble bath together; watch a romantic comedy. “You can be creative,” she says.
Argue constructively. Don't fight below the belt. Because couples know each other so well, they know how to “push that button you know is going to set them off.” Stop before you do it.
Find fun every day. “Make the routine fun, even if it's just doing errands.” Example: If you always cook, find ways your partner can help.
Turn off the tech. When you're out for a romantic night, don't bring your gadgets. (Set them on vibrate if you have kids.) Nothing quashes romance faster than someone texting during dinner.”
USA Weekened
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